The absolute worst thing you can do in a scene is be apathetic.
Del Close (via improv-is-easy)
THIS IS ALSO THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IN LIFE. Makes sense.
Too many young girls don’t know how to act when someone’s being inappropriate with them. They giggle or they try to brush it off. Don’t do that. Tell them to go fuck themselves - be a bitch. If someone’s being disrespectful to you, be disrespectful right back. Show them the same amount of respect that they show you.
Wise words from my mom (via ecartum)
This is what I do! If a guy cat calls me I generally flip them off/tell them to fuck off/etc. It feels good. Feels REAL GOOD.
I have found that flipping the bird and saying “Fuck you” is ineffective on cat-callers.
The last time I was cat-called by a guy in his car at a red light, I walked up to him and asked him what he was trying to accomplish, if he would like to have sex with me right here in the middle of the street, and if this has worked for him before. Oh and I was angry.
He sort of babbled and pointed into the parking lot too-far behind me and said “I was talking to my friend over there.” His “friend” was some dude putting groceries in his car. Yeah right, dude.
No one else has cat-called me since then, so I guess he told all his “friends.”